And then there is sweet little three month old Claire with her big smiles & first giggles. One of the best milestones! More than anything, this is their very first sign of reciprocation & communication. As a parent, you are giving your all to this tiny baby who can not show you any form of appreciation or show their love in return. That first smile is a little sigh of relief & a glimmer of excitement, from that moment on, you know that you are able to make your baby happy. It’s their own little way of saying I love you too, and all these sleepless nights are going to be worth it!
Feeding themselves. All of a sudden you have an extra hour in your day & are able to eat a hot meal (maybe) of your own. Except, that extra hour of your day that you used to spend feeding, is now replaced by cleaning, but, baby steps! enough. And as a parent, it is all about the small victories.
Making funny faces on command. Just like Harper’s fake laugh she used to do, it’s kind of the best when you can get them to actually do it when you tell them to. They’ll definitely never pick up their toys or stop throwing their food, but if they know they can make you laugh? Chances are you can get a funny face.
Real communication. The kind where they can tell you if they pooped their pants or pinched their finger instead of just crying/whining/pointing while you scramble to figure out what is wrong with them. I remember being shocked when Harper was able to tell me that her teeth hurt when her two year molars were coming in. The downside of this is, you really never know what is going to come out of their mouths. A few weeks ago we were out with friends at an outdoor mall & walked past some vending machines, Harper pointed & chimed in “hey guys, did you want to get a beer or somethin?”
Dressing themselves. It might look like this, but it is all sorts of crazy wonderful to have your kids pick out their own clothes & establish their own sense of style. Even if that means they wear Halloween costumes on just your average weekday afternoon.
Buckling their own carseat. Because sometimes you just have to set your baby down for a second so you can climb in the car to buckle everyone else.
With kids, every single day is filled with victories & failures, and it is up to us to decide which ones we are going to dwell on. So here’s to celebrating the wins & embracing all of the milestones, big or small. Because every time Harper buckles her own carseat, I truly feel like I have succeeded as a parent.
But then again, I clearly set my baby in a laundry basket in the van, so maybe I have not. 😉
I absolutely love this post. You took the words right out of my mouth. We are going through the same thing in my household. Being a parent is the hardest, most challenging, and most rewarding gift that I could have every received. Those little milestones are the things that I live for and on the days that I feel like I am failing, they are my reminder that I am succeeding. Keep up the great work!!!
I love your posts so much! They make me smile on days when my kiddos have worn me down and remind me to enjoy every temper-tantrum and no nap day. Thanks!
Love, love LOVE this post!!! Amen to all!
Oh milestones! My Harper just turned 15 months and JUST started walking. like real walking where crawling is now rare. So much fun! although she is now into everything 🙂
I legit love you. This blog post had me smiling on a very challenging day! Thank you
Haven;t seen a van picture yet?! How great is it?
Such a breath of fresh air to hear these same sentiments I feel echoed in your post.
I needed this post. Thanks!
LOVE this post!! These sweet/funny mommy type posts are my favorite. That picture of Claire in the basket at the end made me laugh out loud. I think we have all done something like that, haha! Can't wait to see your Halloween costumes!! How is all the house/moving stuff going? 🙂
Love, love, love this 🙂
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You. Are. Awesome. Have you seen this video yet?! So touching to mommies! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2K18y1W2Lek
Buckling their own carseat, especially when you have more than one little, is a HUGE deal. Makes getting everyone in the car so much easier. And that "Hey you guys wanna grab a beer?" quote from Harper is pure perfection, haha
all of those little moments are so sweet, and make every tantrum and sleepless night [mostly] worth it! Personally I love that you stuck the baby in a laundry basket..betting she survived and turns out just fine 😉
That Snow White picture is too sweet. Your girls are beautiful.
I truly love this post! Such momma wisdom, you should certainly be proud of your parenting skills!
Love, love, love this post!
I wanted to ask you about another kind-of milestone-the transition to the big girl bed! We are pregnant with our second and our first will only be 1.5 when he/she is born. I don't know anyone else with babies this close in age, but thought this may be the age difference between Eloise and Claire. We are debating either getting another crib or a big girl bed – I just don't know what would be best! Any advice would help 🙂
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I love this so much — esp the beer comment from Harper; laughed out loud on that one!! These are truly the days!!
I love this and Harper is hysterical!!!! ������
Haha! ?… "reallocated to more exciting things (like wine)". Looking forward to potty training my two yr old next month! ????????
Love this post! So true on so many levels…but for real tho, wanna get a beer or something' bahahaha
Spot on post – sounded like I was reading my own reality! Great post – thanks for the Friday laugh!
THIS MAKES ME WANT TO CRY AND LOOK AT OLD BABY PICS OF MY KIDS DRESSED IN THEIR HALLOWEEN COSTUMES IN DECEMBER! YOU ARE DOING A GREAT JOB!
Oh my gosh that picture of Claire is priceless! I have totally done that, creative ways to free your hands for a split second to help your oldest (who is still young) I loved reading this. It brought me to tears reminiscing the milestones my children have reached. Thank you for sharing!
Thank you so much for this post, Jessica. My husband and I are starting to try for baby #2 and I'm a bit scared; we had a rough newborn phase with my now almost 2 year old daughter and I'm terrified to go through that again. But this post reminds me that it's ALL WORTH IT! -NG
Awww I loved this post!!!! So true! Lately I am just obsessed with my girls (3 and 2!) and cannot get enough of them. They sure drive me crazy, but they are what life is all about! I have to ask – do you two want more or do you think you are done?? We are debating a third, but a part of me wants four (husband not so much, haha). I just love this stage of life and it goes by so quickly. I envision a big family with tons of grand kids and big holiday dinners around our farmhouse table. Again, it's what life is all about!!
Cheers to a good weekend!
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Hahahaha this post was so funny!! You're awesome
I have followed since the beginning with Harper. This has been my favorite post to date. I definitely got a teary eyed! I hope to be in your place one day, I have two girls, a third would be awesome!
Aw I LOVED this post Jessica!
You are so right, those small milestones are usually the most victorious ones. I feel that way especially about my 1-year-old feeding herself these days. It's a hot mess and a half, but it is still lovely to be able to actually eat sitting beside her and get to enjoy my own meal. Even if it means spending 30 minutes post meal cleaning everything up…I'm still enjoying this stage 🙂
Have a great weekend with your sweet little girls!
Christina
Yes, yes, yes! Keep winning, Jess! Conversations between toddlers is definitely the best and certainly my favorite. 🙂
Love this, and of course having the girls in the same season as H and E I'm right in the thick of the same accomplishments. So thankful when A will buckle her straps so I can just pull them tight while I chase K around the K demanding she get in her seat and she thinks it's a game of tag. All my cups are "mama caw-fee" and one of my favorites of K's is "AWK" for yuck. dirty diaper? "AWK!" the potty? "AWK" spills on the table "MESS!! MESS!!" 🙂
I so much loved seeing my baby's first smile and giggle. It was the most precious thing. He loved smiling while sleeping and I would lay beside him watching, just to see that little smile. I can't believe that now he is making two-three word sentences and actually communicating.
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I loved this post!!! It's so inspiring for a mom-to-be, and you truly described them so well with they little and big milestones. Best of luck for the potty training!
xo
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I love milestones and count them all. It is even more special the more children you have and watching how they interact and show love for their siblings. My favourite age is the word explosion stage as you put it. Especially when they parrot and copy what you say!
This is perfect and a great reminder – thank you! :). Plus, I totally laughed out loud at Harper asking if you want a beer. Way too funny.
This article was so much fun to read. I've just got one 2 year old but think about what it may be like should we have another! It's all so fleeting, but amazing. Thanks for sharing!
OH MAN do I feel you. I only have two but that buckling their own carseat thing is a dream, also just being able to climb in by themselves! I cant wait to get a van. I fully YEARN.
My 21 month old says "die" for cry so it's always "baby dying. Die! Die!" At other babies in the grocery store.
Love this post. I check your blog obsessively because the age differences are pretty close to my girls so it's the only one that gives me an accurate glimpse into what it would be like with three. Have to convince my husband though. 😉
Hahahah I am totally up for a beer.
Love this post and love your blog!! Such
Sweet girls! 🙂
Oh my gosh love it!!! Started crying at the end of it cuz I know what you mean!!! Cherish these days cuz they won't last forever!
Conversations are one of my favorite parts of having twins! My twins are about four months younger than Harper, and our baby is Eloise's age. It's crazy to hear the twins have real, complicated conversations in the backseat, and even crazier to hear them talk to the baby and have him respond. (Our yes is "esh" very similar to "ash"). ?
Love this and always enjoy your sense of humor and perspective!
One of my favorite posts to date. Love watching the milestones happen with my little man knowing that everyday is better than the last. My son will totally be asking who wants beers since he already knows how to open the wine fridge like a pro #parentingwin
Fun post! 🙂
Is Eloise's hair changing colors?
This post was so sweet. I love it. And I love that you have a laundry basket in your car. I'm assuming one day I will realize first hand why you need one there!!
Love this post so much! We are going through the potty training milestone right now and it is just crazy to think my little girl is big enough for princess panties now!
My girls are 21 months apart. At 18 months, I decided to transition my oldest into a bed. I left the crib in the room in case she really freaked out. Which, that only happened a few times. I made the bed a fun place to be. Read stories, played games, so that way she felt comfortable there. Start with naps and then transition to night. For me, it took about 2 weeks before she was okay with the bed. I think starting her so young made it easy! I hope this helps you! GOOD LUCK!!!